Why Do Men.

[chingyb2k]

I'm a black female to let you know. Why do men hate it when girls turn gay or are gay well black men mostly? However, black men have a nerve to hate look what ya'll do. Only white men that think they are black hate that but other then that white males are cool. The reason I asked it because one of the sites I had I ask them can they set up a lesbianĚs site for me and they said no. So I wanted to know do this site discriminate


If I offended any one, I am sorry I HAD to get it out.

[Speed05]

well..doent it sound odd that there the same *** and want to get marry.. devil

[AjRap2]

Well me myself being a black male :PP

I don't see a problem with women turning gay, if that's what you like then so be it. All people have there own preferences and if someone can't accept that then they are obviously ignorant and naive.

[Erick]

Originally posted by AjRap2@Jan 2 04, 04:33 AM
Well me myself being a black male :PP

I don't see a problem with women turning gay, if that's what you like then so be it. All people have there own preferences and if someone can't accept that then they are obviously ignorant and naive.
Although it's important to understand that acceptance of the person, and acceptance of the concept, are two seperate things. In other words, if a person speaks out against lesbianism, that person should not be attacked as being hateful, ignorant, or naive, since it's an attack on the concept rather than the person. Furthermore, a person of a mind against the concept should not be looked down upon for refusing to provide lesbian-related services. In the same manner, those speaking out against lesbianism should remember to keep their attack directed on the concept, rather than the person.

Just a quick disclaimer in case this gets...interesting. ;)

[Ed]

Originally posted by Erick@Jan 2 04, 12:05 AM
In other words, if a person speaks out against lesbianism, that person should not be attacked as being hateful, ignorant, or naive, since it's an attack on the concept rather than the person.


But many times it does go into being not the concept but the person. Meaning they know they cant stop the concept so they try to stop the person, which is also very wrong as one being a human, is allowed to express their selves as a free indiviual.

[Erick]

In the same manner, those speaking out against lesbianism should remember to keep their attack directed on the concept, rather than the person.

Free human expression is not _neccesarily_ a God-given inalienable right...just because it is assumed by most western civilization does not make it neccesarily true.

[Aristia]

No way, Everyone is welcome here unless they conduct themselves in an agressive or otherwise offensive manner.

I really do not like prejudice at all :S

Nice to meet you (again). Opening a lesbian forum here wouldn't happen, but that is because we are not that kind of site...we're about graphics and computers....think/hope u know what i mean :D you are welcome to chat about anything within our guidelines :)

[IdCaabma]

In my opinion a persons sexual preferance is really no ones business but theirs.
I am really wondering why you meantioned your ethnic colour. Makes no differance to me what colour a person is, if I like them, I like them and if I hate them then I hate them and colour or ethnic origin does not come into it.

[chingyb2k]

Originally posted by AjRap2@Jan 2 04, 12:33 AM
Well me myself being a black male :PP

I don't see a problem with women turning gay, if that's what you like then so be it. All people have there own preferences and if someone can't accept that then they are obviously ignorant and naive.
See this is what I like to see most black males do not understand that some Females cannot help it. I tried to date a male but it is just not me. And Some one mad Rude comment what if I was to say I don't like str8 people but you want to down something you don't understand what ever you Need God in your life. AjRap2 thank you we need for men in the world like you.

[Matt]

Aj's black!? how come no one ever told me!?

[IdCaabma]

Originally posted by Matt@Jan 2 04, 10:15 PM
Aj's black!? how come no one ever told me!?
What differance does that make? Aj is a cool guy and colour doesn't change that in any shape or form.. and besides he is my little "under the skin" buddy.. hehe

[Matt]

I wasnt being rascist or anything....i just thought he was white....

Aj's a pretty kewl guy thou ;)

[IdCaabma]

matt what is white? I would say about 30% of the worlds population so that makes them the odd ones out ah.. hehe

Anyway in my books all people are good, untill they cross me.. then they are sorry hahaha

[ProtocolX]

haha, scary, CI

[Fierce Deity]

lol my ex gf (whom was black) had the opposite problem as you, she was always wondering why men loved lesbians so much.

[Matt]

Originally posted by Creative Insanity+Jan 2 04, 04:32 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Creative Insanity @ Jan 2 04, 04:32 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'> Anyway in my books all people are good, untill they cross me.. then they are sorry hahaha [/b]
lmao

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[IdCaabma]

You laugh matt? cross me then and see what happens.. dare you.. :PP

[ProtocolX]

haha

[2$CoMpLiCaTeD$4u]

Why do things become warped and twisted from the orginal subject ? Being rants and raves it is expected i guess.... oh well life goes on.

Welcome to the forums chingyb2k, hope you enjoy your stay with us ;)

[Kingcodez]

i think what matt meant was on the internet you get this image of a person how they talk, and stuff. i dont think his "image" of ajrap was that of a black guy

with out knowing or seeing the person u can only assume what he/she looks like this being only for identification not for discrimination

[serendipity]

Regarding the original post, I'm really sorry. Discrimination is never okay. Seems like people that are inclined for that behavior tend to get real nasty on the web too since they know they'll never be caught in "real life". Come move to San Diego, CA - we don't care what you are! As a straight white female that has every kind of race, *** and sexual preference friends (and in almost every combo you can think of) native San Diegans don't care!!

[Matt]

Originally posted by Kingcodez@Jan 5 04, 08:27 PM
i think what matt meant was on the internet you get this image of a person how they talk, and stuff. i dont think his "image" of ajrap was that of a black guy

yep.

[Lexx]

Very True. Unless people post a lot of information about themselves in their profile, then all we now about them is what they choose to post. I personally don't like to include very much background information about myself to avoid preconceptions.

Whether people mean to or not, when you don't have anything to visually guide you, you tend to make it up. For example, if you read a book, you tend to make a mental representation of what you are reading. In the same way Matt was suprised when he found out AJ was black, if you see a book made into a film it seems different because the visual representation may be different to your original mental image.